Dear Miss Kinnian,
Talk to Charlie and try to convince him to come out of his room. If it really doesn't work, get another close friend to talk to him. When he finally comes out of his room and consents to speak to you, talk to him about his problem.Try to motivate him and make him realize that it is not good for him to keep locking himself and his problems away. Instead, he should try to face his problems bravely and deal effectively with them. At this crucial moment, you should not leave him. Instead, as a friend, you should stay by him and support him. You should also motivate him by occasionally praising him on how well he is doing and coping with his problems. If he ever feels like giving up, help him by suggesting possible solutions. Try to help him to adapt to his new situation. Make a list of the things he wants to do and after completing a goal, cancel it. After completing his goals, bring him out to relax before he starts on another new goal. Also help him to start socializing and make more friends. Try not to upset him as he is emotionally dependent on you and others around him. Your comments are very important to him. When Charlie is no longer dependent on you, he would have become a completely different person from what he was originally. He would have friends and can cope with his troubles effectively.Good luck to you.
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